The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by
Mark Manson
My rating:
2 of 5 stars
Oh my! 54,000 ratings averaging at more than 4! While in reality it's just 200 pages of common sense and well-known ideas. With too many f*cks per unit area to my taste. The author seems well read and versed in literature and more or less in history, but his understanding of biology is quite superficial. All in all, my impression is that, after reaching a respectable age of thirty something, he suddenly realized that
his hormonal status has changed he doesn't want to seek adventures on his ass anymore and became quite happy settling down. Also, he considers his previous experiences (including a lot of exciting travel) as devoid of true happiness, as some sort of temporally high. And of course he wishes happiness at once, for free, and for everyone.
I was stunned by his interpretation of Russians after he spent a month in St. Petersburg. This rant about turbulent history making Russians honest and trusting? Oh sweetheart, you are so wrong, Russians don't trust anyone. Besides this remark, for dramatic effect apparently, about snow in May... There are a lot of places in the world north of 60N and south of 60S or high up the mountains, where you can get snow in May or even in July, and sometimes it's snowing in May in St. Petersburg. However, I remember quite well Spring 2011 in St. Petersburg. There wasn't any May snow that year. If the author lies about that, what else does he lie about?
The latest chapters make even less sense. What was that with "victims" and "savers" being in unhealthy relationships? As long as all involved are consenting adults, why would they even want to change? To find some "unconditional love" someone told them they have to have? Besides, If "we need some sort of existential crisis to take an objective look at how we've been deriving meaning in life, and to consider changing course", meaning we don't change without some sort of inflicted pain, then what's the point of this book? It doesn't inflict any pain...
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